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Should I marry him ?

Sun, Oct 22nd 2006

Thank you for your interesting and helpful site which I came across while surfing the net. I'm deeply in love with a man who's separated, with three children. He also loves me but can't divorce his wife for family reasons. Besides,his Asian culture prevents him from doing so. He's from another country and he's always ready to come over here to see me and to spend more time with me. I can't go on like this: with no horizons for the future. Now he's starting to seriously think about our relationship's future but his big dilemma is his children: he doesn't know when and how to announce it. Could you please help in guiding him to cope with the situation? He also says he's never loved any woman before. I'm ready to make a big sacrifice for him, leave my country and join him to his place but my big worry is: Would his children hate me? Could that affect our relationship? Thank you for answering..

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