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How Can I Tell It's Love?

Tue, Oct 27th 1998

I became romantically involved with a man that I was working on a project with. We dated kind of seriously for awhile, but then let it cool of this last month because I was moving out of state. We never had a sexual relationship. Meanwhile, during our cool off month, I began going out with a friend of mine (that I've been attracted to for years) just as friends. I suspected he had feelings for me, and became romantically involved with him as well. This lasted for many weeks, and we ended up sleeping together before I left. I have not had contact with him since. He does not have my number, and I cannot afford to call him. I have feelings for both men, but in different ways. I'm returning home for Thanksgiving and will see both men, and try to sort out my feelings. How will I be able to tell if it's love or infatuation?

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